Life Strategies: Doing What Works, Doing What Matters

Some people spend their lives reacting to what life hands them, while others craft life to fit their goals. Author Phillip C. McGraw, who is a psychologist but describes himself as a strategist, is determined to make sure that his readers are the creators of their lives, not created by their lives. By accepting that you are personally accountable for every element of your life, McGraw says, you can erase the negative epidemic behaviors (found in all of American society: denial, false assumptions, inertia, deceptive masking) in your life and reach your goals.Written in a tough-love, sometimes cantankerous tone, this self-help book is not for those looking to explore their inner child or visualize away negative energy. No, this is pull-yourself-up-by-the- bootstraps advice from someone whos done just that. McGraw opens with a scene describing how he helped Oprah Winfrey survive--and win--the 1998 Mad Cow lawsuit in Texas, when she was having difficulty coping with the reality of what was happening to her. He helped her face the facts about the lawsuit, after which she was better able to participate in crafting a strategy to win it.McGraw first forces you to take a good hard look at who you are by dissecting your personality. It may be painful to realize that you fall into the Porcupine or Perfecto or any of the other personality types McGraw delineates, but here its true that theres no gain without pain, because (Life Law No. 4) You Cant Change What You Dont Acknowledge. He then describes in depth all 10 Life Laws--the rules by which the world plays--that he learned the hard way. Laws such as You Either Get It, or You Dont, Life Is Managed; It Is Not Cured, and You Have to Name It to Claim It make up the bulk of the book and McGraws realist philosophy.If you learn and abide by the Life Laws and go on to create a Life Strategy, McGraw claims you will not only know yourself better and eliminate negative behaviors, you will also know how to reach any goal you set for yourself. --Stefanie Durbin, ISBN13:9780786884599 ISBN10:0786884592 Material Type:paperback